Feel like you’re showing up for everyone but yourself?

🧭 It's time for a short, powerful reset that brings you back to you—no disappearing, no drama, no burnout badge required.

Not a vacation. Not a hustle. A reset.

Have you ever caught yourself thinking:

  • "I don’t even know who I am anymore…"

Maybe you remember the version of you who was creative, ambitious, lit up with ideas.

Now, you’re just… tired.

  • "I used to be so driven, so passionate... now I barely recognize myself."

Most days, you’re buried under roles—employee, parent, partner, caregiver. And somewhere along the way, you got lost.

Whether you’ve been surviving on autopilot, holding everything together for everyone else, or quietly wondering what happened to the person you used to be… you’re not broken. You’re just overdue for a reset.

You’ve been carrying so much for so long. And you’ve done it well.

But even the strongest systems need a reboot.

This isn’t about adding more to your plate. It’s about carving out space to reconnect with who you are and where you’re going.

Without guilt. Without overwhelm. Without needing to blow up your life to find clarity.

So here’s what I want you to do:
Take a breath. Read this page. And when you’re ready, click the button to start your reset.

Hi, I'm Dr. Mary Barnes.

My clients tell me I’m like the SuperNanny—but for grownups and organizations.

I created CEO of Your Own Life and the Goalcation™ because I was once where you are—productive on the outside, disconnected on the inside.

I’ve coached leaders, executives, and changemakers who all had the same story:

  • "I’m capable. I’m reliable. But I’ve lost myself."

Not because they lacked motivation. But because no one ever taught them how to pause with purpose.

That’s what the Goalcation delivers.

If you’re feeling like…

  • "I’m either the employee, the parent, or the partner… but not a whole person."

  • "I’m constantly reacting, never actually choosing."

  • "Life is just happening to me, and I’m too tired to fix it.”

…it’s time to shift out of survival mode and into self-leadership.

You don’t need another productivity hack.
You need a pattern interrupt.

✨ Enter the Goalcation™ — a guided 3-day reset that helps you move from:

  • Foggy to focused

  • Scattered to clear

  • Drifting to leading

You don’t need more time. You need a better map.

By the end of your Goalcation™, you’ll have:

  • A crystal-clear picture of what really matters

  • A realistic plan for moving forward without burning out

  • Micro-habits that fit your life (and actually stick)

  • Tools to eliminate the mental clutter

  • A renewed sense of calm, clarity, and you-ness

This is the kind of reset that sticks. Not because it’s flashy—but because it’s designed around how you actually live.

This reset speaks for itself—but here’s what others have said:

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

The 15-Minute Kickstart alone was worth it! As a mom of five teenagers, I barely have time to breathe. The bonus 15-Minute Kickstart gave me easy, doable steps that made a huge difference immediately. No fluff, no “just think positive” nonsense — just small tweaks that actually worked. Whether you’re trying to find direction, make space for yourself, or just get back on track, this is worth every penny.

Trish N.
Busy Mom & Community Leader
★ ★ ★ ★ ★

Finally a reset that actually worked! I’ve done so many “feel-good” workshops that left me motivated for about a day. The Goalcation was different. In just three days, I went from feeling like I was drowning in responsibilities to having a clear, actionable plan that actually fits my real life. It’s not fluff — it’s practical tools I can use daily. For the first time in years, I feel like I’m steering my life instead of reacting to it.

Kara M.
Nonprofit Director & Busy mom to 3
★ ★ ★ ★ ★

I didn’t realize how burnt out I was until this. I thought burnout meant collapsing on the couch every night. What I didn’t realize was how much time and energy I was losing to overthinking and people-pleasing. The Goalcation helped me strip all of that away and focus on what actually matters to me. I walked away with habits and systems that I still use months later — and I feel like myself again.

James K.
Entrepreneur
★ ★ ★ ★ ★

The clarity I’ve been chasing for years. Before the Goalcation, I felt like I was constantly spinning my wheels — productive but not fulfilled. In three days, I identified what I actually want, created a plan to get there, and set up systems to protect my time and energy. I’m no longer saying “yes” to everything out of obligation, and the mental relief is priceless.

Emily S.
Marketing Manager
★ ★ ★ ★ ★

I got my energy — and my joy — back. I didn’t need a new job or a huge life overhaul. I just needed a way to stop running on empty. The Goalcation gave me that. The daily anchor habits and my personalized 90-day plan keep me grounded and focused. My friends keep saying I seem lighter — and they’re right. This reset was exactly what I needed.

Vanessa L.
Teacher & Mom of 2
★ ★ ★ ★ ★

More than motivation — real change. I’ve been to retreats before where you feel great while you’re there, but nothing sticks. The Goalcation was the first time I left with tools I actually use in my day-to-day life. It’s like I finally have my own personal compass. I’m not drifting anymore. I know where I’m going and how to get there.

David R.
Healthcare Professional

Worried you don’t have time?
🕒 It’s flexible. You can do it in one weekend or spread it out.

Think you’re too overwhelmed to even start?
🌱 You don’t need to be ready. You just need to say yes to pausing.

Not sure if it’ll “work” for you?
💡 If you’ve made it this far, it’s already working. This is your first step back toward yourself.

And yes—it’s only $97. Because a reset shouldn’t be a luxury.

Here’s what you get:

  • A self-paced 3-day experience you can start anytime

  • Simple, high-impact exercises designed to give you traction fast

  • Downloadable and printable tools and worksheets to guide your reflection and action

  • The 15-Minute Kickstart bonus—bite-sized tools for momentum even when life is full

  • Lifetime access

No fluff. No filler. Just a clear, compassionate container to realign and move forward.

🎁 BONUS: The 15-Minute Kickstart

For the times when 3 days feels like too much, start with just 15 minutes.

This mini version of the Goalcation helps you reconnect, reset, and reclaim your energy in less time than it takes to scroll Instagram.

Try the Full Reset—Risk-Free for 10 Days
You’ll get immediate access to the full Goalcation experience—plus the 15-Minute Kickstart bonus.


If you go through the reset and genuinely don’t feel clearer, more grounded, or more connected to your next step…


Let me know within 10 days of purchase, and I’ll give you a full refund. No hard feelings.


You’ve got nothing to lose—and a whole lot of you to get back.

I built this to help people like you finally reset with clarity and calm—not to pressure anyone into something that doesn’t serve them.

This is your sign.

The Goalcation is always available—but if you’re reading this now, you’re here for a reason. Give yourself what you’ve been giving everyone else: time, attention, and care.

You don’t need to disappear. You don’t need to abandon your responsibilities. You just need 3 days—and a system that brings you back to yourself.

Goalcation™: Your 3-Day Reset


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